Friday, December 31, 2010

Happy New Year!

So my book counts holds at 26!  I'll wait to declare victory in case Mommy Meg is speeding through five more books in the wee-hours before the New Year. 

And in keeping with the spirit of the new year, here is my resolution:  (Besides beating Mommy Meg in my book count....again...) 

I am going to read The Bible from front cover to back. 

I have never read it entirely.  I have read chapters and parts here and there.  But I got to thinking that as an Orthodox Christian who puts so much into her reading (ummm... I blog about), it's pretty ludicrous that I haven't read the entire Bible.  And besides, as Mommy Meg discovered that she is expecting again (due in June), so she'll have the reading disadvantage of four small kids, I thought I'd give her the head start of me reading a book thousands of pages long. 

So Happy New Year!  And if you don't hear from me until March, you'll know what I'm reading. 

Friday, December 3, 2010

Book # 26: Skippy Dies

by Paul Murray

Don't read it.  It's one I would have stopped reading 150 pages in if I wasn't trying to compete with finishing books.  It tells the story of a teenage boy who overdoses on drugs after having multiple traumatic experiences at his Catholic boarding school.  Way too much teenage boy humor talking about girls and puberty, and the adult role models were soo clueless and depressing.  Pointless and meaningless sexual experiences, bullying, teachers misbehaving, fights, drugs, gangs, schools covering up problems, it's all in here.  I must say that if this is really how the author views the world, then we live in a pretty depressing place, or he does.   I think I was most disappointed in the parents and teachers he displayed.  While I understand that no one is perfect, these people were above and beyond not caring.  Everyone in the book, ultimately, was looking out for themselves.  Definitely not a Christian outlook on life.  So don't waste your time. 

Sunday, November 21, 2010

A Challenge

I was looking back over my blog from last year and my book list from then.  Last year I read 33 books.  I'm at 25 currently.  That leaves me with 8 books to read before 2011.  That would mean four in November and four in December.  I'm curious to see if I can do it, but to be practical, as I usually am, I don't see it happening.  There are so many other things to complete by Christmas, such as cards, pictures of the kids, Christmas shopping, making Christmas gifts, wrapping those gifts, etc.  So my challenge to myself is to read 5 more books, thus putting me at 30 books for the year.  I think this is a doable challenge.  I'll keep you posted.  And Mommy Meg, don't use this insider information to pull a fast one and zoom by me.  :)

Book # 25: Spaceheadz

By Jon Scieszka & Francesco Sedita

Being an elementary education major, I've read Jon Scieszka's other books, so when I noticed this one, I just had to see what it was about.  A great option for incorporating energy wave information into a classroom in a fun way.  A little out there as all of his books are, and perhaps difficult to understand depending on the reading level of the child.  I could definitely see sequels and a website playing off of his Spaceheadz theme.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Book # 24: The Host

by Stephenie Meyer

An intriguing science fiction tale of an alien species that inserts itself into other species in order to live.  They begin to colonize Earth, but realize that Earthlings are able to retain a presence in their brain.  Sounds strange and far-fetched, but was truly well written.  It was one of those books that you can't put down, read straight through, and then are sad to be done with.  I was amazed by Stephenie's ability to have you sympathize with both the alien species and us as a decidedly strange love triangle occurs.   A tad predictable and not a book that requires a ton of thought, but still one I'd highly recommend.

Monday, October 25, 2010

Book # 23: The Disappearing Spoon

By Sam Kean

I have a weird fascination with books that instruct as well as entertain.  I have many times been picked on for enjoying travel writing.  This one intrigued me because it takes a look at the periodic table and tells all the interesting stories behind the elements.  I will say there were times that I was a tad stumped as the last real science class I took was in high school (Elementary Education doesn't require those hard math and science courses), but then again, I'm not sure everyone grasps quantum mechanics on their first attempt.  Not a fast read as you have to think more than when reading a book like, "Eat, Pray, Love", but one I would recommend as the information is presented in an interesting way.  It leaves you looking at items like aluminum foil or the ingredients in your tums with a slightly different understanding. 

Monday, October 4, 2010

Book # 22: The Notebook

by Nicholas Sparks

I absolutely loved the movie, so the book fell short of my expectations.  The development of the characters was lacking, especially for how and why they fell in love.  It was too much implied destiny for me.  The overall concept was intriguing and classic, but I just expected more.  It almost seemed like over the top romance for me.  Maybe I would have enjoyed it in high school, but at this point in my life, I like to understand why people are in love, and just because they are destined to be doesn't cut it.  The movie did a spectacular job building on why they worked as a couple, and a number of my favorite parts of the movie weren't in the book. 

I'm going to try one more of Nicholas Spark's books, his newest one, because I will still admit that my disappointment might have been caused by enjoying the movie so much.  I'll keep you posted.

Friday, October 1, 2010

Book # 21: Committed

by Elizabeth Gilbert

I was disappointed.  While I generally disagree with Liz's outlook on life and her values and political standings, etc., Eat, Pray, Love was at least a story about a woman visiting places and working through things.  Even if I couldn't understand what she was working through or appreciate her struggles, I, at least, found her experiences while traveling intriguing.  Committed is (as she admits towards the end) simply a book of Liz trying to find a way to get over her distaste of marriage, in order to get her Brazilian "lover" a permanent US Visa by marrying him.  There were less travel stories, and mainly a series of Liz vents about how she felt about marriage and its past.

I really couldn't relate because I'm one of those people who Liz would find hard to relate to.  I am married, glad to be, and wouldn't have it any other way.  Never felt that not getting married was an option I wanted.  Never felt that not having children was an option I wanted.  And frankly believe that divorce is not an option either.  Yes, I realize it takes two on the divorce aspect, but I believe that all the soul searching and premarital hoo-ha that Liz did before getting married this time happened before I got married the first time.  So it's confusing because the 20ish year old that Liz describes before her first marriage was someone that frankly I never was.  Not that I'm bragging; I'm not trying to.  I'm just trying to say that it was extremely hard to relate to this book.  And frankly, I will be more cautious about choosing to read her books in the future because at times it just left a horrible taste in my mouth.   

Saturday, September 25, 2010

To Mommy Meg:

Don't feel like I'm beating you.  You are actually giving me a run for my money.  I have a few times been worried you were going to zoom past me as you have stayed so close to my numbers.

So I will say this:  even if I don't end up winning, the competition has been effective in helping me keep reading as a priority in my life.  And for that I'm thankful!

~Kelly

Book # 20: The Short Second Life of Bree Tanner

by Stephenie Meyer
This is a Twilight novella, which tells the story of a character briefly introduced in the novel Eclipse.   It is not nearly as good as the Twilight series itself, but for those of us hooked on the world Stephenie created this book allows us another journey back into that realm.  An easy read that I finished in two days as I basically read every second I could get.  And I will say that if Stephanie decides to continue Fred's story (he was introduced in this book), I would be willing to read it.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Book # 19: Eat, Pray, Love

by Elizabeth Gilbert

This was another book that I chose to read because of the movie coming out.  Afterall, the movie has Julia Roberts, and most any movie with Julia Roberts will be one that I see.  And as the books are often better than the movies, I had to read the book first.  Elizabeth spends four months in three places:  in Italy to eat, in India to pray, and in Indonesia to love.  I was skeptical to be honest.  And it was hard to relate with Elizabeth.  Afterall, she is the one jumping out of marriage at age 30 to roam the world and pursue writing, while I am the one at 28 who jumped out of teaching and am home, married, and raising three kids.  Very different perspectives and priorities.  However, she is such a person (and she admits it in telling why she is a good traveler) who makes friends easily, and this came across in her book, thus making it easier to see her side.  I don't agree with a lot of what she wrote about or a lot of what she necessarily decides to do.  But I found a surprisingly large amount of truth in her prayer journey to India.  As an Orthodox Christian I would not agree with the general principles of her found religion, but some of the practices that she found are truth, such as fasting, praying constantly, and even the description of heaven and hell that she finds.  So it was intriguing to see where truth could be found.  I didn't love it, but I liked it enough to be seeking out the sequel.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Book # 18: Perfect Circles: Redefining Perfection

by John Michael Stuart, MSW

I started this book not realizing that it was meant to be a self-help book.  Therefore, it was a bit of a struggle to read as my expectations for it were different than what it turned out to be.  John Stuart has cerebral palsy which he was born with due to being deprived of oxygen for four minutes.  He is therefore physically disabled, and faces all of the challenges that come with this.  Throughout the book he intersperses stories and events from his life with inspirational messages and ways of thinking.  I got the book looking to read the stories, and discovered that the inspirational messages were a bigger part of the book.  At first I was annoyed; and frankly, almost stopped reading it, but then I decided as I was already 45 pages in to give it a shot and keep going.  And I'm glad I did.  It is a good book!  A lot of the things he recommends to help you learn to accept yourself, move on, and be happy in life are things that I've discovered since becoming an Orthodox Christian.  Just two quick examples are:  1.  the power of your mind over your body; 2.  the power of forgiveness to move you toward reconciliation.  In Orthodoxy we fast to help us overcome our fallen bodies which are weak, and we are expected to forgive constantly.  To demonstrate the forgiveness aspect we begin each Lenten period before Pascha (our Easter) by attending a Forgiveness Vespers where after the service we all line up and ask every member of the parish including our families for forgiveness.  In which they reply, "God forgives, and I forgive".  I'm not sure of John Stuart's religious beliefs or if he even has any, but a number of the truths he brings about in his book are "perfectly" stated. 

Monday, September 6, 2010

Book # 17: The Pillars of the Earth

by Ken Follett

I read this book in high school (eleventh grade) and have been claiming it was my favorite book ever since.  It was interesting to reread it from my perspective now.  A lot has changed since eleventh grade.  I'm now an Orthodox Christian;  I've graduated from college; I'm married; and I have three kids.  So my perspective on life has definitely changed.  The main thing that surprised me was how graphic the book was.  Sorry to be blunt, but the sex and violence described in this book blew me away.  I couldn't believe that I read it when I was 17, and then I couldn't believe that my parents let me, though in all honesty they probably had no idea what was described.  The second surprise after I calmed down over the brutality and graphic nature of what was being described was that the book is just as good as I remembered.  The story is extremely complex.  The plot is interwoven through multiple characters' lives spectacularly.  It is truly a masterpiece!

The overall concept of the book is following the building of the Kingsbridge Cathedral.  In doing that we meet the Prior, who runs the monastery where the cathedral is to be built, two masons/builders and their families, and various Earls, Bishops, and Kings.  All of their lives weave together to either fight for or against the building of this church.  It's so complex and well researched that I honestly can tell you no more without writing for pages. 

I'm not sure if I would still say it was my favorite book, though I can definitely see why I would have said that in 11th grade.  It offered me an interesting look back at who I was and what I stood for.  A bit of pride was definitely part of my claiming it as a favorite then--who else at that age claims a nine hundred and seventy three page book, much less one about building Gothic cathedrals in the 1100's.  But now reading it, I struggle with the sexuality and brutality described.  I have never been a reader of romance novels and head for the classics more often.  I have read other books equally well written with less in your face violence.  So I will say it is Ken Follett's masterpiece, and one that I would recommend with a warning to be prepared.

Monday, August 23, 2010

Book # 16: Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

by J.K. Rowling

A reread to prepare for the upcoming movie.  I must admit I forgot a TON of the book, but it was just as enjoyable to read it a second time.  I plowed through it, could hardly put it down, and finished it in less than a week (and with three kids three and under that is quite a feat).  So if you haven't, which if you're reading a book review blog I'm sure you have, read the Harry Potter series.

And I am happy to report that I have a book waiting for me at the library along with three others that were requested.  Yea!!  Reading is such a good thing when I have a newborn because it makes me relax.  It makes me take a break on the couch.  It makes me head to bed earlier.  It makes me feel like I am doing something even when I'm taking a break.  And a mom always needs to feel productive.

Monday, August 16, 2010

Book # 15: Going Rogue

by Sarah Palin

I really enjoyed reading this book.  Sarah Palin is someone who seemed impressive when she ran for vice president.  I liked her idea of politics and working for the people, not for the party.  I liked that she was a lifetime NRA member, and that she understood how to hunt.  But there were also things that I didn't understand--her outlook on her daughter's pregnancy or her entering pageants.  After reading this, I like her even more.  She is truly a woman to be admired.  She clearly explains her positions and sticks by them.  She campaigns on issues and sticks to them.  I think everyone should read it to get a better idea of how politics should be run.  I'm definitely interested to see where Sarah Palin ends up.


Tuesday, August 3, 2010

And Mommy Meg, I just can't keep up with you this year!  Every time I catch you, something comes up and slows me down. 

Baby # 3 Arrives!

So yes, I've been out of touch. 

Here's part of why:

Baby # 3 was born on July 15th! 

So I am officially a mom of three under three!  Number two turned one last week, and next week number one turns three!  So then I will have three, three and under.  Doesn't sound as television worthy as three under three does.  Oh well!  Just thankful they are becoming a little more independent.  And number three is finally doing longer stretches at night, so I'm starting to feel human again.

I did finish another book, the third in the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.  Honestly, it was torture to read.  Maybe it was the end of pregnancy tiredness or the itch to get other things done, but making myself sit down and read it was hard.  Not a book I'd recommend, as I've mentioned the humor is just not the kind I enjoy.  Frankly, I don't feel like talking about it anymore. 

Now that number three is here, my motivation to read has returned (though on a lesser scale).  I've already started and into another book; so hopefully, the next post won't be so long in coming.












Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Book # 13: The Restaurant at the End of the Universe

by Douglas Adams

I enjoyed this one more than the first in the Hitchhiker's series, probably because I knew what to expect.  Once again, I enjoyed the play on words, but the amount of absurdity and lack of in-depth plot and character development is hard for me to deal with.  I'm planning to read the final book in the trilogy next.  Not exactly sure where he is planning to go with it; and frankly, I haven't really bonded to any of the characters, so I don't really care what happens to them.  One of those series you read because you hear good things, but then never really enjoy them.



Book # 12: Journey for Freedom

Defection from Communist Czechoslovakia
by Peter Vodenka

It was an extremely intriguing book.  A co-worker of my husband lent it to him.  His co-worker knows the author as they are in the same line of work.  Small world syndrome, I guess.  This book told the story of a husband and wife who planned their defection from their communist country.  They took with them their two small children, ages 2 and 4.  Not only did it tell of their escape, but also of their start in America and their life prior to defection in Czechoslovakia.  For anyone who has not lived in a communist country, it was eye opening.  Made you very appreciative of living in America and all the freedoms we have. 


Monday, May 10, 2010

Book # 11: Angry Conversations with God

by Susan E. Isaacs

My sister left this book for me to read as she has seen Susan Isaacs speak in person and really enjoyed hearing her talk.  I, however, did not really get it.  The book is set up in two ways: one part follows Susan through her spiritual journey detailing her actions and life, the other part takes place in therapy and is a dialogue between Susan and God, sometimes as the Father and sometimes as the Son.  These conversation pieces I never truly felt I could relate to.  There was a lot of sarcasm, blaming, and petty fights.  I frankly found myself skimming them to get back to the meat of the story.  

As for her life, I will say it was intriguing.  She has certainly had her battles and hardships to face.  However, once again there were a lot of times I felt that the problems could have been avoided with a little bit of thought and maturity.  There was a lot of blaming God for not doing or giving what Susan wanted at the time.  Which frankly, if your will doesn't match God's, you aren't going to get your every wish to come true.  There was also an inordinate amount of time spent trying to read the "signs" around her even to the extent of trying to interpret her dreams.  The end seemed to conclude correctly, but the journey there left me scratching my head, confused that it could take that long to get there.  Maybe it is my background that makes it hard to relate to, or maybe things were exaggerated for the book.  I admire Susan for sticking through everything and continuing to seek God, but overall, it is not really a book I would recommend. 

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Book # 10: Saint Innocent of Alaska

by Sarah Elizabeth Cowie

It was an easy read and included a simple and understandable description of Saint Innocent's life.  It is designed more for teenagers, so it will definitely be one I will save to share with Madilyn later on.  I could have used more descriptions and stories surrounding his life, but for the audience she intends it for, it was a good amount. 
And seeing as I knew very little about his life, except that he was a missionary to Alaska, I learned a great deal.  As always I am amazed at what one Saint can accomplish with the help of God. 

Friday, March 26, 2010

Book # 9: The Tempest

by William Shakespeare

Being an English minor and loving to read (especially classics), this is one of those books I've been meaning to read, but never got to.  Finally did.  It was a slow start, as it is with Shakespeare, due to the language being more cryptic.  But once I got through the first scene or two, I was hooked.  This is one of his plays that I have never seen performed, and I would love to after having read it.  Not his most complex play, especially plot wise, but it would be interesting to see how they presented it on stage.  Maybe in a few years, when I'm not pregnant and running after little kids, I'll be able to get out of the house long enough to see it! 

Monday, March 15, 2010

The Time Traveler's Wife--The Movie

I saw the movie, so I thought I'd let you know:  THE BOOK IS WAY BETTER!  As most books are.  The movie skipped soo much, and while some of it I understand (such as Clare and Henry making love for the first time when she's 18 and he's 43), some of it was what gave the characters their depth.  They especially cut out a lot of their meetings when Clare was a kid and teenager.  This is what provided us with an understanding of why Clare loved him.  We didn't get much of a reason for that from the movie.  In a sense the movie threw things at you and expected you to buy into it, while the book actually gave you reasons for it. There was no courting in the movie--it went from meeting, to a few dates, to a proposal, to a wedding.  We missed Clare falling in love with Henry, and Henry falling in love with Clare. 

That being said--the ending of  the movie was way better!  (Spoiler alert)  In the movie after Henry dies, when he time travels to spend time with his daughter he also gets opportunities to see Clare.  Even better than that was the interaction between Alba and Clare after he vanished from the final meeting we see.  They connected; they understood each other;  the look between Alba and Clare showed us that it would be okay, Clare could and would function as a mother.  The book never gave us this hope.  All we saw was a shell of a person who was waiting for her final meeting with Henry (when she's 83) and who was kind of resentful that her daughter got to see him.  Not a happy ending for Clare, Henry, or Alba.

Book # 8: The Guinea Pig Diaries

by A.J. Jacobs

This is the third book by A.J. Jacobs that I've read, and it is my least favorite.  I think the main reason is that this is a series of small experiments, while the others were longer and more involved.  This book felt more disjointed, maybe even a little forced.  That being said, there were a number of laugh-out-loud moments, especially in the final projects.  A couple of his projects included:  outsourcing his life to companies in India--both professional and personal, trying to practice radical honesty, and letting his wife be in charge of everything.  Parts were intriguing, but it's not a book I would necessarily reccomend.  Read his other two first at least.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Book # 7: Stones into Schools

by Greg Mortenson

This is the second book about Greg's inspirational work of building schools for girls in Afghanistan and Pakistan.  The first, Three Cups of Tea, was lent to me by my sister and was an amazing story.  This one is nothing less.  It is well-written, intriguing, and meaningful.  I highly  recommend it as it gives a glimpse into the society of Afghanistan and Pakistan, while documenting the work that the Central Asia Institute (a group Greg set up) is doing.  The tasks and undertakings that are overcome are unbelievable; and frankly, I can't even begin to do the book justice.  So just go get a copy, make a cup of tea, and read it!  You won't regret it.

Monday, March 8, 2010

Stalled

Well, my reading has been halted.  Mommy Meg noticed that I had mentioned neglecting my house work in order to keep up with my book reading.  Therefore, she suggested that maybe we should take a break between books and complete a household task before continuing.  This got me thinking... my household items always get done.  By these I mean, my laundry, grocery shopping, weekly cleaning, and cooking, but I do have a "To Do List" that has been sadly neglected.  So neglected in fact that I have not visited it since way before Christmas.  So with Mommy Meg's motivation, I printed (yes, I keep a copy saved on my desktop) and updated my to do list.  This small act got me incredibly motivated.  A number of the tasks on my list actually looked fun.  I just happen to be an organizational nut.  Not that my house in anyway reflects this because I'm a messy person by everyday standards, but those big organizing projects that most people prefer to put off--I LOVE THEM!!!  Organize the basement--OKAY!  Sort through the kids clothing--YIPPEE!  Buy containers and make Madi's crafts accessible to her--WOOHOO!  I know; it's sad.  As a kid, I used to organize my bedroom a number of times a year--not clean, organize.  The large pile of clothing would stay untouched, but my school papers and artwork would be cataloged and filed away neatly.  A little backwards--most likely, but very handy in a friend, as if you're organizing and care to invite me, I will be your motivator!!! 

Anyway... perhaps Mommy Meg knew this, dropped a hint on purpose, and thus sidetracked me from my good old reading frenzy.  Perhaps not, and I dug my own grave, or at least organized it. 

Either way, I HAVE started my next book, but my days have been spent:

1.  Inventorying Madilyn's clothing (size 2T, 3T, 4T, and 5T), all stored in marked boxes in her closet for when she finally reaches those sizes.  Now I am ready for yard sale season because I know what items I am missing, such as snowsuits, T-shirts, or winter dresses. 

2.  Organizing Madilyn's craft supplies into little drawers so that she can now access them herself.  Hooray for independence!

3.  Sorting through Luke's too small clothing and getting it folded and ready for baby # 3.  Plus purging the items I dreaded putting him in as I really didn't like them.

4.  Finally, prepping a few items to mail as they have been sitting in my office for over a year.

5.  Hanging up some icons and crosses that have also sat in my office for over a year.

Now that I have confessed my organizational addiction, I am headed to the couch to put my feet up and yes, read...not organize, not purge, not straighten...to read!

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Book # 6: The Time Traveler's Wife

by Audrey Niffenegger
 
Frankly, I'm not one to love time travel books or movies.  My husband on the other hand LOVES time travel.  So much in fact, that he is dying to see the movie and has even considered reading the book.  So I knew at some point I'd be seeing the movie, and as books are almost always better than the movie, I like to read the book first.  I knew this book would be sad--it reeked of it--there was no way it could not be sad. 

This is one of those books that you absolutely love, but will require a box of tissues and at least a week to process and move on with your life.  I probably cried through half of it, and after finishing it this morning, I am still running parts back through my head.  And if I think too hard about it, I'll tear up.  (Okay, maybe the pregnancy hormones aren't helping!)  I even dreamed about it last night.  I read it so quickly (trying to speed through the sad parts and be able to get back to the real world) that my thoughts kind of began to mirror the book layout.  Kind of like after reading a Jane Austen book, you begin thinking in "Pray thee, tell me's".  It's a full out emotional roller coaster, and it's hard to climb off afterward.  Definitely one to read, and one I can see becoming a classic, but also one I don't want to reread as experiencing the emotional agony once is sufficient.

Besides the emotion, the book handles the concept of time travel well; having a husband who watches anything involving time travel means that it becomes a topic of conversation often.  My main issue with time travel is the whole multiple time lines and the whole "then they woke up" sequence, where only one person remembers the entire episode, but they can't say anything.  None of that messes up this book.  Time travel is handled well, and even believably.  It is incredibly well written and very intriguing to ponder. 

As for the end, I was left a little unsatisfied.  I wanted Clare to move on (not forget or find someone else), but live again.  I wanted her to interact with her daughter, to stop waiting, to be whole.  If she reached that point, we didn't see it.  And their last meetings--BIG LET DOWN!!  I wanted to hear the conversation; I wanted to know how long she spent with him.  I wanted to know what happened in all that time he was gone--what had Clare done, where was Alba, etc.  Yes, I'm slightly cranky about it.  After investing so much emotional stamina into a book, I wanted closure.  I didn't get it.  So now I'm left pondering what happened, while still experiencing Clare fading into a Henry-less life.  Perhaps that's the intent, but err...

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Book # 5: The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

by Douglas Adams

Saw the movie, only remember the beginning-- thought it was extremely cheesy...

As for the book, initially thought it wasn't turning out much better than the movie, though reading about the incredibly absurd events taking place is easier and more entertaining than trying to watch them turn out on the movie screen.  I generally like wordy humor, so his general style fits my sense of humor, but still, there's something stopping me from really enjoying this book.  Is it the overly science fiction aspects?  Or the lack of relationship development and a large focus on plot and description?  I don't really know. 

(Spoiler alert) When Zaphod said that his brain had been altered, I finally felt intrigued (previously I was mostly annoyed and slighly bored by the book).  I'm not sure if this glimpse of a plot, outside the realm of improbabilities meshing together into abusurdity, will cause me to read more in the series.  Probably.  At least the next one.  We'll see where this leads.

Friday, February 19, 2010

Book # 4: Holly's Inbox

by Holly Denham

One of those guilty pleasure books, like Bridget Jones's Diary, that you are half ashamed to admit that you spent your time reading, yet none the less couldn't put down once you started it.  It was an easy read, occasionally laugh-out-loud funny, but nothing to go on and on about.  Basic plot, Holly starts as a receptionist in a new company and while learning the ropes of the company, also keeps up ongoing email conversations with friends and fellow employees.  Throw in a few out-there friends and a romance or two, and you've got a lot of drama in her inbox.  Not one I would put in my top ten list, but if I happen across a sequel, it would be hard not to read it. 

And I think I've finally set my priorities straight--reading comes before housework...

Monday, February 15, 2010

Book # 3: Julie & Julia

by Julie Powell

Let me start by saying I tend to be a read-the-book-first-then-see-the-movie girl.  I also most of the time will hold that the book was better than the movie.  In this case I am torn.  I LOVED the movie!  I'm not sure if it was understanding the feeling of being in a rut (which having almost three kids in three years will do to the best of us) or the way Julia Child came across as such a lover of life and everything to do with it.  Either way, I not only had high expectations for the book, but I was also scared it would flop after the movie proved so good. 

Well, it didn't flop.  The book was funny and a fast read (perhaps because I've been caught in the thought-provoking book zone for quite some time).  Some would get a tad frustrated by Julie's ability to frequently have a crisis about the smallest thing.  It did get on my nerves, but at the same time, being the pregnant, hormonal maniac I currently am, I could really relate.  And she knows how to tell a good story, even if her morals and language are at times shady (for Orthodox Christian right-winged me).  Overall, I enjoyed it.  I needed a dose of light-hearted dramedy.  I will be seeking out the next book she's written, and if I could catch a glimpse of a vacation in the near future, would bring it to the beach, as it would be a great book to read out in the sun.

At the same time, I will say I liked the movie better; in fact, it will be on my birthday list.  I will also be borrowing Mastering the Art of French Cooking from the libary to peruse, and I might just pick up a biography about Julia Child while I'm there. 

And for the first time this year...  MommyMeg:  I'm ahead!!!  :)

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Book # 2: The Heart of Anger

Practical Help for the Prevention and Cure of Anger in Children
by Lou Priolo

This was given to me by my aunt, a mother of five well-adjusted and obedient children.  She has recommended other books before, and I have never been disappointed.  This one also proved to be a great resource.

Lou describes angry kids, how parents can provoke them, and how to deal with these attitudes.  He gives extremely practical advice and examples of exactly what you can say and how you can word different conversations.  He also discusses disrespect and manipulation and how in a sense you can "fight" back.

I especially appreciated his use of a "think room", where kids would go when they need to reconsider their attitude.  This is different than time out, as they can decide when they have formed a better way of acting and then can come out and address their parents.  As kids get older, the room would also involve certain tools, a bible and area to pray, in order to help them form better responses. 

The "appeal process" was also a great concept, as it allows children to respectfully petition for a different outcome.  For example, they can ask to clean their room later because of something else that needs done more urgently.  It is a great way for kids to feel that they have an option for changing a rule if they see a reason.  Granted, the child would then comply if the appeal was denied. 

While my oldest is only two and a half, I can still see lots of ways to use the methods mentioned in this book.  I was happy to see that I was already employing some of them, such as working with them to restate things in a respectful manner-- we are in full blown whining mode here!  I think at the point I'm at if I remain consistent, I might not need to use the journals that Lou provides, but I like the fact that they are there if needed.  And his description of the "Gumnazo Principle" is right up the alley of what Orthodox monks practice in giving up their will and training themselves in Godliness. 

So definitely a book I will recommend to fellow parents, and one I will be rereading occasionally to monitor our progress.

And hooray for finishing a book!  I have about four books on hold at the library that if it ever stops snowing, I will be starting shortly. 

Monday, February 1, 2010

A Snail's Pace

My reading at the moment has slowed waaaaaayyyyy down.  I wasn't sure at first why (yes I know I have two kids, but they both still nap, so that's no excuse).  But then I started considering when I typically read: 

1.  when the kids are napping
2.  when the kids are in bed at night

Hmm...what am I doing instead of reading during those times? 

Playing with my iPhone.  *sigh*  Yes, my iPhone.  My husband very nicely surprised me with one for Christmas.  Previously, I have never owned a cell phone, much less a tech-savvy item like this.  So now when I should be reading,  I am on my iPhone checking email, facebook, or reading blogs.  Not that I'm complaining about the phone, I LOVE it!  But I think I might need to prioritize, as people really don't post many fascinating new developments in the course of a two hour window of time.  So in the future, iPhone, you are not invited during kid naptime.

Why else am I not reading?  Well, I have no good books.  No, that's not the right way to word it.  I have good books, but they are all really heavy reading.  I tend  to be so exhausted by the time I sit down to read these days that I feel the need for something lighter and more fun.  So to remedy that I just requested several books from my "to read" list at the library.  So come next Wednesday, this excuse will be rendered unusable. 

Why am I worrying about not reading?  Well, you may or may not have noticed that my competitor has finished her second book.  She is beating me, and with three kids at that!  And as I am not one to surrender easily, consider my game stepped up. 

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Book # 1: Ella's Story

The Duchess Who Became a Saint
by Maria Tobias

I love inspirational stories and reading about the lives of the saints.  They always seem to act as a good kick in the bum.  This is the story of Saint Elizabeth, the New Martyr.  She started as a princess and had everything a girl could ask for.  However, with the death of her husband, she gave up everything and became a nun.  She then worked to help the poor of Russia.  Her story is  amazing, and while this story is technically written for a younger audience, it is truly inspiring and worth reading.  I would love to read more about her life and the great things she accomplished.  This book served to peak my interest, not satisfy it, but this is to be expected from a book written for teenagers.  This is one I will keep on our shelves and share with my daughter as she gets older.

Currently reading:  The Heart of Anger
by Lou Priolo and Amy Baker

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Welcome

The Premise: 
Last year, Mommy Meg (a friend and fellow blogger) brought up the fact that after having two kids her amount of reading time had greatly diminished while her intended to read pile of books steadily grew.  This led to a discussion of a reading competition that would last a year; and hopefully, encourage both of us to read.  That was the beginning of 2009 and for one year we read and posted our books on our corresponding blogs.  Having been such a success in prompting us to pick up those dust covered books, we decided to continue that competition into 2010.  And thus, the start of my book reviewing and tracking blog.

The Stats: (2009 data)
Mommy Meg:  20
Bent Over Books:  33

The Challengers:
Mommy Meg will be competing with three children under three for the next month or so.  Look for a slow start, but a race to the end, as the number of diapers and spit up rags used per week decreases.  Add on top of this one husband, one dog, and one house to keep clean, and the challenges met will be unforseeable.

Bent Over Books will be competing with two children until July, when she will also be a mommy to three under three.  So look for a fast break out of the gate, followed by a crawling pace mid-year, and a steady increase in the last lap.  Additional challenges will be a husband, a cat, and a house to remodel.

Happy reading!